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The what if in life……..

I’m especially in the mood of voicing of blogging out my views. Why when i tell people, they think I’m crazy, they think i’m not being factual….Its only my view..bla bla bla.
Ha…maybe i’m not yet a "Socrates" ok..thats a greek philosopher. that why they don’t trust my philosphy….time will tell….it will 🙂

Oops..I digress again..constant glancing at the Title/Subject prevent me for writing out whats coming into my mind and keeping track what i’m suppose to write..

As per the title/subject, "WHAT IF".
Recently I attended a relative graduation ceremony. During the ceremony, the speaker created a environment where we actively correspond with the graduates & they shared their experience & skills learnt in the school.

In 1 particular activity we are told to find a partner and sit face to face with one another. The speaker pose a question to "chair a" …of coz the question is "WHAT if"…yah…but What if what????

hahha…here comes….what if you only have 1 week to live…what would you do?
*don’t throw rocks at me" cliche it might seems. but how seriously do we actually look or act on this question?

You might heard it from
1) Insurance agent
2) spouse
3) ok…i don’t know who else would ask u such question beside the above 2!

It might seems childish to even answer it…but I was made to think what I would really DO. AS in do it in 1 week? Its really about giving a honest answer…that makes the whole question so tough.
And guess what… answer has nothing to do with money…hahaha. Money…i can get that in hell, when you guys burn it to me.LOL

What i really wish i can do is to re-lived my life again…OK..not "back to the future" kind of stuffs..coz that impossible. What i meant was to meet all my friends and relative again.
Imagine to see & to know your

  1. playgroup friends

  2. kindergatern friends
  3. primary /secondary /tertiary sch friends
  4. colleagues
  5. neighbours
  6. girlfriends
  7. enemies
  8. army mates
  9. etc.

Can you image that…thats like re-living your life agian. THAT…is really my last wish:)
To live & to remember the past with no regrest…sigh…*sob*sob*

So friends ..neighbours…enemies….lend my you ears…

Now this is something u never knew
I look over my life in awe,
The day when i’m about to die,
please come by and say good bye.

whaa…poetic ah… turn to answer the wat if question

got to rush…so pardon my illogical ending

Slice of Life

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S.W.O.T Analysis

Few days back my mum told me a interesting theory. It wasn’t exactly hers, she quoted off my Dad’s conversation with my bro.

Here is what she said to me, towards a girlfriend, you should be looking for her weakness. But towards a wife, is about looking at her strength. Whaa….thats is some methodology which I learnt in school but didn’t know it can be applied in a relationship. I’m like…hmmmm cool.

In marketing its call S.W.O.T Analysis,

But in a relationship, it is only about strength & weakness.
Hmm…perhaps i can write a book on the S.W.O.T Analysis of relationship
Heh…who would want to buy a book writen by a insensitive & and self believe guy!

OK back to the the Strength & Weakness in a girl……., Wanting to marry a girl whom you think you will have no regrets is definitely tough. Thats why the first thing is to look for its weakness ot flaws, then we decide weather its the ONE! But as luck or fate would have, one is never 100% right about its choices. Thats where the strength comes in. Finding the strength if your now wife, it will cover her "last minute found" flaws & cloud your negative thinking about her.

Hahaha don’t you think thats a WONDERFUL way of handling a relationship?

You will say easier said then done…and I say Just do it
But without me *LOL*

slice of life again 🙂

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